Rugby has always been a unique sport, like rowing, where they throw you a ball and if you drop it you get asked to row. Rugby is a sport for all shapes, sizes and athletic abilities, from props to second row to scrum halves (like me) to wingers and full backs. How many other sports allow doctors and lawyers to play alongside plumbers and builders, so forming lifelong friendships over beer and singing? How many small rural communities thrive thanks to the rugby club allowing people from all parts of society to bond easily and forge that local village and town community and identity.
Watch that left arm son.. |
The Guardian has a very evenly balanced article on the subject, but if you love the game, and consider tackling (and the physicality of it) a key ingredient, there is one quote from a player that stands out a mile:
I met most of my closest friends through the sport
I’m a big chap. I play as a prop. I started playing at the age of seven and played all through school. I don’t like football, am woeful at cricket and am the wrong shape for everything else that’s not the shot-put. Playing rugby in school is dangerous, but like everything else in life, it is a matter of risk versus reward. If rugby had been touch-only during my school years, I’d simply never have been selected; there’s no need for me in a game of speed. I don’t think I’d have continued.
I’m 40 now and still play to an OK standard every weekend. Rugby is the reason I try to keep my weight down and stay fit. Most of my closest friends in life I met through rugby. If I’d stopped playing in school, I’d have none of this in my life. My experience is that the risk is dwarfed by the reward. For full disclosure, the injuries over the last 32 seasons are:
Broken collar bone (needed surgery)
One concussion (didn’t return to play for six weeks)
Cracked wrist (not broken all the way through)
Cracked rib (not broken all the way through)
Cracked humerus (not broken all the way through)
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